im not crying im just allergic to that episode of futurama where frye’s dog waited 12 years for him to come back
I’m sorry about the nasty posts concerning my stance on harrassment, personal space, and boundaries, but my very transphobic, acephobic, manipulative and out of touch with reality ex girlfriend tried to worm her way into my tumblr space yesterday. I explicitly asked her to leave me alone, to which she replied “fuck you tumblr is public and i’ll do whatever I want.” As a show of defiance, she stomped around like a toddler and proceeded to follow all my blogs and have her close friend follow me as well.
I don’t think I need to explain why this is inappropriate and is not only harrassment but crossing into stalking territory.
My ex is very emotional and unfortunately the only way to defend my boundaries was to leave posts for her to snoop through and find to hit her where it hurts. It worked, after vigorous tongue lashings she and her friend have unfollowed me.
That being said, however, I am apologizing for the negativity and gendered slurs I used and not for defending myself. My boundaries are very important and they are not something I will compromise on! I’ve let people over step them all my life and the only thing it has done is enabled people to continue being abusive and done severe damage to my self esteem and mental state. No more! If someone ignores your request for space, for whatever reason, that makes them an asshole. Period.
I do not like drama. It is very stressful for me, and to be honest, I just don’t have the fucking time for it. There are too many great cartoons out there waiting to be watched and too many great people out there waiting to be talked to. I’d much rather spend time promoting positivity and living my awesome life than fighting with toxic people.
However, the longer we pretend issues like harassment don’t exist, the longer they will continue.
Ok, let’s have some fun now!